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The Daily OrangeFraternity member encourages individuality, campus involvement outside of greek life
By Alex Regenstreich
Posted: 10/24/05, 12:09 AM EST Section: Pulp
The pressures of conforming to the social life at Syracuse University are not necessarily worth it for some. In particular, the greek life at SU is so dominant and socially consuming that those who do not wish to partake feel at odds with their options here at school - something even I, a member of Zeta Psi, have to take notice of.
While one does not have to give in to the pledge process, there is no doubt in my mind that by not taking part, you are hindering your social experience here on campus.
I spoke with one freshman, photojournalism major Amanda Shine, who is not sure the greek option is for her.
"College is supposed to be an exceptional time, and it feels weird when you know that the norm for 'cool' here is something that isn't really your style," she said.
Sophomore education major Sarah Filipic agreed. "I rushed and wasn't impressed with the girls I met. It just wasn't my thing," she said. Filipic said the popularity of greek life is one of the reasons she is transferring from SU after this semester. The fact of the matter is, students who do not wish to go greek are choosing a much different route socially, which can make them feel inferior to the stereotype of being cool and part of the in-crowd.
Shine said she is not against greek life "at all," because like many who wish to be a part of the organized and mechanical greek society, she enjoys the social prospects college life has to offer.
"I love to party and meet new people," she said. Shine was even voted most outgoing in high school. It should not matter so much whether one joins a fraternity or sorority. That is definitely a legitimate social outlet. As Shine said, "Some people love it and they meet their best friends and that's ill." But greek life does not have to be the only way to make your mark here on campus.
Now, some may view my remarks as hypocritical, as I am a fraternity member. However, I believe this experience has given me a deeper perspective on life here on campus.
While one does not have to give in to the pledge process, there is no doubt in my mind that by not taking part, you are hindering your social experience here on campus.
I spoke with one freshman, photojournalism major Amanda Shine, who is not sure the greek option is for her.
"College is supposed to be an exceptional time, and it feels weird when you know that the norm for 'cool' here is something that isn't really your style," she said.
Sophomore education major Sarah Filipic agreed. "I rushed and wasn't impressed with the girls I met. It just wasn't my thing," she said. Filipic said the popularity of greek life is one of the reasons she is transferring from SU after this semester. The fact of the matter is, students who do not wish to go greek are choosing a much different route socially, which can make them feel inferior to the stereotype of being cool and part of the in-crowd.
Shine said she is not against greek life "at all," because like many who wish to be a part of the organized and mechanical greek society, she enjoys the social prospects college life has to offer.
"I love to party and meet new people," she said. Shine was even voted most outgoing in high school. It should not matter so much whether one joins a fraternity or sorority. That is definitely a legitimate social outlet. As Shine said, "Some people love it and they meet their best friends and that's ill." But greek life does not have to be the only way to make your mark here on campus.
Now, some may view my remarks as hypocritical, as I am a fraternity member. However, I believe this experience has given me a deeper perspective on life here on campus.
